Mark just came to me with the following message: ""Jen, i love you, I always have and I always will, and nothing anywhere can change that" He kissed my cheek, my lips, and my forehead and he was gone.
I am bawling.
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I hope it's good advice and that it helps! Just remember to be careful, as the wounds are fresh (as you I'm sure are well aware of). If he seems uninterested or seems to feel uncomfortable, I would back down. But you never know, you may be pleasantly surprised. )
That's understandable. If you ever wanted to test the waters, you could always try having a hypathetical conversation about how he would feel if your friend contacted one of the two of you. It will def do you some good to talk things out either together or apart.
They in time may come around, but you can't force it. It doesn't seem like something you can force. He was able to come to you because you are open to it. Take solice in the fact that at least you are still able to feel him and here him. Maybe in time you can find a way to let them know he is OK.