Not just fun and games, no no no. I wrote down these directions a few years back:
I don't really recommend them for your main source of communication. They are easily misused and potentially dangerous. If you would still like to use one, please follow these recommended guidelines:
Whether homemade, from a mystic's shop or from the toy store, Ouija boards are NOT inherently mystical. They are made so by the hands that lay upon them. It is what is done to the boards that make them what they are.
Step 1: Prime the board. Before a Ouija board is used, it should always be wiped off with a clean piece of black silk. This will wipe off any energies remaining on the board from those hands that touched it previously, such as in the manufacturing process.
Step 2: Establishing a connection. It is very important before the board's initial use that the main user of the board rubs their palms briskly together to activate the hand chakras. Next, lay the hands on the Ouija board. Ask to speak to ONE specific person. This can be a deceased family member or friend, or better yet, your spirit guide. If your spirit guide's name is not already known to you, now is a good time to ask. This spirit is now your buffer. All correspondences with other spirits who you want to talk to, or may want to talk to you, will go through this buffer spirit. They serve a similar purpose to the firewall on your computer, keeping unwanted energies at bay.
Step 3: Keep track of your messages. Keep a pad of paper and something to write with nearby. Write down everything that comes from the Ouija board and also any names or words that seem to pop into your head. The Ouija board is a vehicle, but it is not necessary for you to make contact. Some of the correspondences may not make sense, but write them down anyway. Don't discount the things that don?t make sense to you since it is possible they will make sense at a later time. There is no reason to fear what you may learn, but it is important to keep and open mind and an open heart.
Step 4: Closing the connection and routine maintenance. As you are closing out your Ouija board session, say goodbye to the spirits you've contacted, and wipe down the board with a black silk cloth. Close the board and put it away. Do not leave an open Ouija board out, especially overnight. Once you leave the board, your connection to it and your buffer spirit is lost, and the porthole is left open and unguarded. Remember, the Ouija board is not a game, it is a true gateway to the Other Side, and if not protected with a buffer spirit or some kind of filtering energy, it is open for energies to flow freely between the two worlds.