I used to have a spot in my backyard where there was a fire pit that had one longer branch that never seemed to burn in it that I used to use like a shelf for candles, then surround the area with Nag Champa. I have a friend that crossed in 2002 who is my connection on the Otherside, and he will tease me for having those things, but they make me comfortable. Unfortunately for me now, that was where my kids' swing went in, and I've yet to find another nice spot in my yard.