Thany you very much for the ideas! I think you're probably right too. We've felt something in the apt for a while now but it doesnt feel bad. We find it mostly tries to get the attention of my bf too. While I might be aware of it around, when my bf is around you can see things move and hear strange sounds. Perhaps it feels a connection to him for some reason.
It just freaks out my bf a bit because he has never dealt with anything like this before, while I've experienced things since I was young. I told him since our super easily scared cat Casper doesnt seem to be bothered by it than neither should he. When Casper starts hissing at something we can't see than we can start to get a bit worried!
I was also thinking that maybe my bfs recent intrest in Pagan/Wiccan things might be opening some walls for him. His mother and aunt have been Wiccans for years and years, but he's been recently getting interesed in their world. Maybe some spiritual walls for him are breaking down? I'm not sure.
Anyhoo, it's a relief that its prob just taking my form for familiarity and not to be scary. I'm kind of jealous I didnt see it.