crystalcross wrote:
ttiger2004 wrote: As investigators, we all need to be working together as a team, not working against each other and infighting doesn't need to be happening.
Tiger! KUDOS!!!!!!!
I agree 100%! Constructive criticism is good. Strive to improve.
But not to tear down. Address the practices, not the people is what I always say.
If there is something that needs changing, address that. And then work towards change. That is honestly what this site is all about.
By the way, I'm the one who asked you to voice your opinion. Balance makes the world go round.
Did I miss anything? Lol. And because we've talked about the particular shows in the past, I'll refrain from naming shows.
Everything has pretty much been said. I do think however that we can learn more of what not to do on these shows than what we should be doing.
As my wife said, the drama could be left out of these shows. For those of you who thrive on the drama or those of you who view this thread that are actually on a show and you think drama sells; my answer to that is it sells to the weak minded, not those of us who need more proof based on an educated investigation.
Case in point, as my wife says, look how long America's Most Wanted with John Walsh aired for how many years? There's little to no drama and John presents the facts. I like that and it clearly shows that it can be done.
I've watched some of these shows where they yell at and act like they engage spirits with a machoesque type of mentality. Ratings, ratings, ratings folks. When I see someone tell a spirit "Quit wasting my time", I know it's for the ratings and the person knows next to nothing.
This field has been tarnished by the shows in America [can't speak outside of U.S., don't know]. The question begs, "Who will come forward and change it, regardless of what the tv powers that be say? The field can either continue to look like an embarassment, or people with a voice can change it.