Wow! All the support is amazing! Thank you!
I agree there are a number of things going on. I would not doubt that there is someone attached to the land. I've only been here 2 1/2 years and I've always had things happen to me. I am discovering that my community was involved with the Civil War, so I'm considering that as a possibility. As far as I know no one has ever died in the house. It was built in the late 70s and the previous owners were the 2nd family to live here (or so I've been told).
My best friend (from childhood) is convinced I'm being followed. I also have dead family, which if I am being followed I'd rather it be family than just some random spirit. lol
I agree that a good amount of skepticism is good. Having an open mind means being open to all possibilities.
I am totally open to communicating. I think for the most part whoever this is, they are not bad, just a little pushy. There is someone/thing that scares my 2 y/o and he went from sleeping in his room to having a panic attack when we try to put him to sleep in his room. He also seems to be awakened by someone/thing at times when I'm not. My son does see someone who he is not afraid of. When he was sleeping in his room, I would here him playing peek-a-boo. Yesterday when something was knocked over in the kitchen, he took me by the hand to see who did it. He has also pointed out someone/thing "flying in the sky" in our dining room.