HEllo peekaboo!!!
I can relate to them finding you.... My sis is currently upset with me. I guess she had this house cleaned, but with how they "find me" I have brought several in.
Some of us have such strong abilities, even if we don't realize how strong we are ourselves yet, that we are like beacons in their realm. They are attracted to us because they know we might be able to help them, or at least recognize their existence.
Sometimes that is all some of them want, validation that they are still amoungst "the living"... not trapped in some place of torture where they can see their loved ones but it is actually a cruel joke where eventaually they are going to watch the ones they love go through torturous things. Most who are like this, once they know that they are really still here, are content knowing. I give them this validation, somehow, and they then return to where they know their loved ones are to watch them, content even if their loved ones cannot sense them as we do. Very few, even though I can help them to do it, want to pass on to the next incarnation, instead wanting to watch their loved ones until they join them.
Please note that very few will ask you to contact their loved ones for them (especially if you explain that their loved ones have probably already been contacted by crackpots who say they can do the same thing, and thus probably won't believe you). If they insist upon me contacting them, a simple letter in the mail does not cost much, and no return address to yourself is the best policy. Including some tidbit of information that would not be known to anyone but the spirit and the living one contacted is highly recommended (even though I still wouldn't give out my personal information). Been there, done that, didn't want the T-shirt. very bad experience.
In any case, I wanted to let you know that you have found the right place, are amoungst friends here, and if you want, please feel free to drop me a personal message anytime to talk about things that you would rather not post in the forums.
Peace, much love, and blessed be, always.